Wholeness and the Implicate Order
The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself.
- Michel de Montaigne (1533-1592)
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Wholeness and the Implicate Order
Inspired by Michel de Montaigne (1533-1592)'s quote, "The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself". The titled responsion is
The greatest thing in life is to know how to belongs to oneself. You belong to your mind. Others will make claims upon your time, energy, effort, and your feelings, but your mind is your only constant, your only first, and your only last. There is no one else out there that you belong to or can belong to, and there is no person that you belong to or can belong to. This is your true identity and your true self, and you must take full responsibility for it.
As a society, we are bombarded with messages telling us that we must belong or else. That our bodies, minds, and souls are important; that we must belong in order to contribute to the betterment of society or the betterment of ourselves. If you don't belong, if you feel like a stranger in a strange land and you are being forced to belong and participate in society, you are not alone.
The truth is, that many of us have come to believe that we must belong in order to be real people. We have grown up believing that our minds, our bodies, and our souls are the most important parts of us and all that we are.
This belief has resulted in many people who are self-conscious, who hide themselves away, who do not share their innermost thoughts and feelings. This has led to those who are able to let go of this burden and embrace their true selves being unable to accept themselves and who then turn to others to help them with their problems. This has also led to the feeling of isolation that many of us feel. We feel as if we are not worthy of love, respect, and acceptance and therefore we do not feel good about ourselves.
You can help a person learn to let go of this feeling of rejection, self-pity, and loneliness by allowing them to give you the love, respect, and acceptance that they so desperately need. The love, respect, and acceptance must be unconditional. You must let go of your personal judgment and the fear of rejection when giving someone love and respect.
If you truly believe that you can be loving, understanding, accepting, and compassionate toward another person, you must begin to let go of your fears of what others' reactions and criticisms. This will allow you to be able to truly be there for and to love the person who is willing to give you the love and support that you need and deserve.
One of the things that you must do if you want to know how to belongs to herself is to ask yourself why you feel like you are being rejected. What is keeping you from loving yourself?
If you find yourself feeling negative about what is keeping you from living up to your true nature, you must accept your true nature. You must accept who you are and what you are now, and then you can learn how to belong. to yourself again.
Once you understand that rejection is part of being human and that there is no right or wrong response to others, you can learn how to belongs to yourself. Once you are able to let go of the fear of rejection and the feeling of having been wronged, you will find that you can open up to others and share your feelings. and have a deeper connection with the world.
Another great question that you must ask yourself when learning how to belongs to yourself is "What makes me feel good about myself?" If you are feeling depressed or inadequate, it is very likely that the reason why you are feeling that way is because you do not feel good enough about yourself. and your self-worth. When you have an opportunity to be grateful for the person that you are, the feeling of being worthy will become stronger than it ever was before.
One of the things that you will find when you ask yourself "What makes me feel good about myself" is that you are more likely to learn how to belong to yourself. You will learn how to accept yourself as you are and appreciate who you are. Your gratitude will allow you to find that you are worthy and valuable to have relationships and a strong self-esteem.