Bitter sweet symposiums of love edify the structures from which we learn. The biological imperative is partially environmental with proximal and distal influences effecting, and 'affecting', any and all movements towards the future.
This parsing function in the brain is healthy and sharpens memory. The fiction of flourishing is absolute to be experienced in degrees daily. So some, not so much, for others; a norm. Don't disrupt my homogeneity! That's not a right. It's ignorance.